Dan Kimball wrote a piece called Reality Church that really spoke to me. I’ve watched people go through all of those stages. I’ve been through some of them myself. Being raised a preachers kid, I have always been interested in why people leave churches. I think it is healthy to always evaluate your spiritual life and to involve others in your spiritual growth. I live by one rule when it comes to church. If you are getting bored with your church, then look inward to your own spiritual life. What are you doing to further the kingdom of God on this earth? I understand that this is a generalization but it is a question that I believe needs to be honestly answered before you look at external solutions.
Thanks Dan for your insight.